Covered Leg, Exposed Truth

Last night was a reminder that society still struggles to understand disabilities—especially the ones they can’t see right away.

Most of the time, I wear shorts or clothing that shows my prosthetic leg, partly because it’s more comfortable, but also because I’ve learned that visibility somehow makes my disability more “acceptable” to others. But last night, I wore long pants. My prosthetic was hidden, and the reactions I got reminded me that we still have a long way to go.

I used my walker all day and night. It’s a part of how I move through the world, and I make no apologies for that. But I noticed the looks—those double takes, the pity, the confusion. People were kind, yes. They made space and let me pass through. But I could feel the silent questions: Why does she need that? She looks fine. Is she faking?

The thing is, I shouldn’t have to “prove” my disability by making it visible. I shouldn’t have to show my prosthetic leg to validate my need for a mobility aid. And yet, I caught myself wondering if I should’ve dressed differently just to avoid the stares. That’s a heavy feeling to carry.

Disability doesn’t always look the way people expect. And that’s okay. We need to keep talking about it, showing up, and reminding the world that disabilities come in all shapes, sizes, and visibility levels.

So if you’re someone with an invisible or partially visible disability: I see you. I feel what you’re going through. And no, you’re not overthinking it.

Let’s keep pushing for a world where we don’t have to constantly explain ourselves to be accepted.

With strength and love,

Amelie

Founder of CHAP-OH